Tag Archives: Helping

Unconditional Love and Anger

What Anger?

The other day I was speaking to someone who was having issues with negativity. I have written on this before, check out this page, however, there is something that came out in the conversation that I thought I would share.

Unconditional Love – a Cure for Anger?

If I am present, that is, aware of what is going on and not just running on automatic, as we sometimes can be, and I experience negativity that could lead to anger I remember that there is something I can do.

I can remember that if I approach every situation from the view point of unconditional love, then there is no room for anger. Do you realise how powerful that is?

So, next time you feel your ‘gander’ rising, become present and remember that you are the one who chooses how you feel and if you choose to react from that place within us that is unconditional love, then you can let the negativity go straight through you and have no effect  on you.

Just one last thing, if you know that you have reacted to negativity badly then put it right as soon as you can, don’t let it fester. Remember that resentment is very damaging. Lots on Resentment here.

If you find yourself experiencing the same negative things repeatedly have a look here.

Give yourself freedom to feel love and peace, it is yours for the taking.

Best wishes

Alastair

Good Day or Bad Day – it’s Your Choice…

Do you have good and bad days?

Better question:

  • Who decides whether you have a good day or not?

Is it luck…. or fate?

I think it was one of the terminator films with Arnold Schwartzenegger in it that had the quote, ‘There is no fate but what we make.’

How true do you know that statement to be? If you know it to be true, it will be true; it really is as simple as that.

Who is in Control?

Red sky in the morning...?

Red sky in the morning…?

You may be thinking that there is no way you can get out of a bad situation or effect the outcome of your life. Be assured there is and it’s not as difficult as you may think!

We are all creating in our lives, all the time. It just depends on if you are creating positive or negative things.

I recently went on the first Life Design Getaway and that is exactly what we learnt. I even saw things in my past that I had designed on purpose but I didn’t realise I was doing it. How cool is that! I will write up the day we had in the near future so that you can see exactly how good it really is when you find out exactly what you need to do to transform your life. My designs are already coming true!

Is your glass half full or half empty? It can be full if you desire it to be!

Is your glass half full or half empty? It can be full if you desire it to be!

Andy Shaw spent a long time during and after a meltdown in his business life finding out what had changed from the days when everything he touched turned to gold. By looking in depth into the self improvement and self help arena he found out how to use the power that is within all of us to influence things around us. He decided to write a book to share what he discovered. In fact he wrote two, one would just not have been right!

Having met Andy and spent some time late at night in the bar with him, I can tell you that he is a really nice guy who genuinely wants to help the world by enabling people to fulfil their potential.

It has made a big difference to how I ‘run’ my life and means that I no longer have any anxiety, fear or worry. Things from the past no longer have a hold over me and I have an armoury of techniques ready to deal with the times when my ego tries to take control back. (Not sure what your ego is trying to do, see more here.)

To get a taste of what it is like to have a bug free mind and get signed up for a free Starter Kit.

Remember:

  • What is, is, the past has no hold over you unless you let it.
  • You can choose to be happy right now.
  • You can choose to take control of your life today.
  • Always find the positive in everything you do and say.

More on this kind of thing in my Reflections on Peace

If you have any questions about this or any other topics on this website I would welcome them. Likewise, if you have comments that would help those who may be reading this then please also leave those, you may know that when you give to the universe, you receive back with interest, God knows its true!

Best wishes to you all…

Alastair