A few years ago I watched a video of that exponent of the power of now, Ekhart Tolle. He realised just how powerful NOW is, so much so that he wrote a book with that title, The Power of Now.
The main point is – there….is….only….NOW.
Think about that for a second.
In fact what is a second?
It is really just a moment in time, one sixtieth of a minute, and, as it was passing did you notice that, oops, it’s still now?
So if now is all there is, what does that make the past and the future?
Well my understanding is that the past is just there for us to learn from. It is NOT to haunt us and make us feel bad.
The future is just that, the future, and when it arrives it will also be now! Can you remember the film that has the quote “There is no fate but what we make?” Even if you haven’t been told that that is how it is, maybe it is time that you thought about that.
If something is in the past we can’t change it. So why do we beat ourselves up about those things?
Someone once said something like, if something is annoying you and you can change it, then do so. If you can’t change it then change your attitude.
Notice that in both cases you made the choice to change, nobody else. The issue here, as ever, is that choice is the problem and the solution. Now you know you have a choice you can start to make one that suits you.
When you accept that the past cannot be changed, and does not have a hold over you, you free yourself from that burden and can move forward.
So move forward with love, leaving those things that have troubled you in the past, the lessons having been learnt.
Best wishes and feel free to comment to start a conversation. Share your experiences here as well to help others.
PS – Oh yes, the dog! Well the dog was mentioned in the video. Ekhart was talking about the way that when we take the time to be quiet, some times we have thoughts that crowd in on our peace and contentment. I have written about too many thoughts going around in our heads but the dog didn’t figure!
It is possible to build our mental muscles to enable us to control these thoughts and get back control of those thoughts. It is the peace that having a quiet mind brings that is the end game here.
Picture yourself sitting on a park bench looking out across a path just watching the world go by. Here comes the dog. The dog is like a thought that pops into your head. Your choice is whether you get up off the bench and follow the dog as it walks by or if you sit still and let the dog walk away and release that thought and don’t follow it.
If you choose to let those thoughts go then you you can experience peace.
I trust that you will find that peace if it is your desire to do so.